I am EXTREMELY discreet and private and I once had a client who was shockingly indiscreet and tried to show off by having random coworkers join our dinner date when that was not at all what we agreed to! I left immediately.
I was not happy at all. I provide a special private curated event between two people (requiring complete screening!), not to be shared with any others, including discussing details afterwards. I also do not participate at all in “review culture”! It compromises my safety.
A LOT! Appearance is very important to me. I pay attention to every little detail especially grooming.
I’m extremely organized, prompt and reliable, plus a good communicator. Even though I very much enjoy taking pride in doing the very best job I can, this is indeed a business and I treat it as such. The caliber of professional man who I see very much appreciate this standard.